To slot in, you need to do all the things you cannot to face out. In school, peer stress works very arduous to attain this. Simply maintain your head down and don’t do something that makes you stand proud of the group. For those who do, you could obtain particular remedy, bullying, ridicule and alienation.
Sadly, folks don’t develop out of this. They carry it with them. Avoiding social isolation in favour of the social approval of those that are equally afraid to stay their head out.
You may’t develop as a performer if you’re too cool for college. In case you are extra involved with the way you look to others, you’ll by no means stand out.
If you wish to act, you’ll stand out. If you wish to write, or play music, or dance, or write movie, or draw, you can not stand out by attempting to slot in.
You see artists and artistic folks don’t want to face out. They are who they’re, exactly BECAUSE they stand out. They’ve chosen to face outdoors of conventional social buildings, and so they have refused to maintain their head down.
And what you’ll discover is all the opposite folks on the market, refusing to slot in.
Don’t attempt to slot in, your home on this planet is to face out.